"Submitting to One Another in the Fear of God."
(Eph. 5:21)
by Carey Dillinger (Reprinted from The Expository Files: http://www.flash.net/~wberkley/efdec02.html)
Everyone wants to be in charge these days. Whether at work, home, school or church people are seeking leadership roles and often for the wrong reasons and with the wrong attitude. Part of the wrong attitude in seeking positions of authority is outlined in the following quote.
One very common error misleads the opinion of mankind-that authority is pleasant and submission painful. In the general course of human affairs the very reverse of this is nearer the truth. Command is anxiety; obedience is ease. -Paley
To become a Christ-like leader we must be willing to first make ourselves over into servants. How can we achieve the kind of humility that would bring us God's grace while avoiding the anxiety attached to holding authority? Through submission.
Strong's Greek Dictionary defines submission: to subordinate; reflexively, to obey: be under obedience (obedient), put under, subdue unto, submit self unto (hupotasso).
The Bible clearly teaches that we are obligated to submit to:
1. God (Rom. 6:13) [And if we obey God, we must disobey ourselves,
wherein the hardness of obeying God consists. --Herman Melville]
2. One Another (Eph. 5:21)
3. Earthly Authorities (1 Pet. 2:18-21)
4. Masters (Eph. 6:5-9; Col. 3:22-4:1)
5. Parents (Eph. 6:1-4; Col. 3:20, 21)
6. Husbands (Eph. 5:22, 23; Col. 3:18, 19; 1 Pet. 3:1-7)
Note that it will be impossible to submit properly to kings, masters, parents or husbands unless we learn first to submit to God and second to submit to one another.
If there is neither Jew nor Greek, bond nor free, male nor female in Christ (Gal. 3:28), then what subordination is called for among Christians whom Paul says are his equal? Paul and Peter address this seeming contradiction in such passages as already suggested, namely wives submit to husbands; slaves submit to masters; children obey parents; citizens to governments; etc. But none of these relationships will work effectively for the cause of Christ unless we are willing to submit to one another in the Lord.
It is this willingness to submit to one another in the Lord, which causes Christians to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace (Eph. 4:3).
Mutual submission
Eph. 5:21 - submitting to one another in the fear of God. (NKJV)
or Be subject to one another out of reverence for Christ. (RSV)
Mutual submission will begin to take place when each Christian
learns how to consider others better than self. This way of living
will call for a large dose of Christ-like love and humility as
we look out for the interests of others first (Phil. 2:3-4).
Whatever role we have been given provides us an opportunity to serve our brothers and sisters in Christ. (Larry Richards, The Teacher's Commentary, p. 930.) It is when we accept our role as husband, wife, employer, employee, community leader, or citizen in light of Christ's teaching and example, with a reverence for Him and His heavenly Father that we will begin to serve one another.
Mutual responsibilities
Scripture (such as those passages mentioned earlier) indicates how God's plan for our interaction with one another demands a level playing field. Please notice the mutual responsibilities outlined in the following relationships:
No matter which role we find ourselves in as Christians, we
are to be guided by a deep abiding concern for others - this is
agape.
Occasion to serve
Any Christian relationship that relies on authority and submission (such as the ones already suggested) are not to be viewed as humiliating, but instead as opportunities to serve one another. Example: The master serves his slaves by treating them with fairness and respect, while the slave serves the master loyally.
Obviously, this is not the world's view of authority and submission. In the world authority is exalted and servitude is debased. In the world a person's position determines their value.
Christ rejects this worldly pattern in His church and among His people. A person's value exists apart from his role. Example: The slave, the wife, the child, the citizen and the church member are as equally important to God as the master, the husband, the parent, the king, and the elder under Christ's scheme.
Final Thoughts
"God resists the proud, But gives grace to the humble." (James 4:6) This is the very lesson our Lord was continually trying to teach the disciples while here on earth (John 13:1-10). He is our perfect example of leadership by example of service.
Some governmental figures portray themselves as "servants of the public" and so they should be. Many police departments use the motto, "To protect and serve," and what a good motto it is. Our local school board's aim asks, "Is it for the good of the children?" and that is a noble aim. Unfortunately, these portrayals, mottos, and aims are often times just "ear candy" and are not backed up with action.
Christ expects more than words from His followers, he expects action - action from everyone on everyone else's behalf. If the Lord Himself is our servant-master, then we must prepare ourselves to be servant-leaders, servant-mothers, servant-children, servant-husbands, servant-employers, and servant-employees. In whatever position we find ourselves either in the church or in the world we must be prepared to lead through service.
[Discussion points adapted from Larry Richard's, The Teacher's Commentary, pp. 929,930.]
The Challenges of Prosperity by Greg Gwin
No one can dispute that we live in the most prosperous time in history. In fact, ours is the most prosperous nation in the world and we are the most materially blessed people of all time. No other group of people - living or dead - has ever enjoyed the advantages we possess. Lesson one: be thankful!
The problem, of course, is that these blessings of money, material
possessions, leisure time, and personal liberties will become
our spiritual downfall. Consider some of the challenges that are
presented by our prosperity:
It is easy to become consumed by the ambition to obtain more and
more. Solomon, perhaps the richest man in the world at the time,
wrote: "He that loveth silver shall not be satisfied with
silver; nor he that loveth abundance with increase: this is also
vanity" (Eccl. 5:10). With abundance comes an increased appetite
for even more.
This desire for more worldly goods presents a whole new array of temptations. Paul warned that "those who want to get rich fall into temptation and a snare and many foolish and harmful desires which plunge men into ruin and destruction. For the love of money is a root of all sorts of evil . . ." (1 Tim. 6:9,10). Our news is filled with reports of corruption at the highest levels of government and business. The underlying cause is the "love of money." And, note that you don't have to be rich to suffer these temptations - you only have to "want to get rich." Many have suffered the "ruin and destruction" - both physical and spiritual - of such desire.
As the pursuit of riches and possessions continues, men invariably allow God to be crowded out of their lives. Many a Christian has neglected his spiritual duties while salving his conscience with the excuse: "I must earn a living." God, on the other hand, has promised that if we put His kingdom first, "all these things shall be added unto you" (Matthew 6.33). May we all have the faith to trust Him in this way. Our prosperity is a huge spiritual threat. Be careful!
THE BOTTOM LINE
"What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us."
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